Don’t Ever Confuse This With “White Supremacy.”

Amen! ūüôĆ 100% this!

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Where Do We Go From Here?

One final thought before I start my Sunday. I learned something new this weekend.

After the photojournalist lied about me and I called her out she, of course, doubled down and admitted no wrongdoing however what was especially curious to me was that the people on her side, the liberals, the Left, had strange reactions but nearly all of them boiled down to this; they want there to be Nazis so they have something to fight and hate, and therefore they actually expect me to lay down and take it, true or not.

I’m not kidding. They operate from a base assumption that I should allow this because of their need to hate someone. I can show them facts and prove she lied but ultimately they don’t care about that. They only want someone to hate, period, and they don’t care about if it’s real and they don’t care that it puts my family at risk.

They honestly cannot see past themselves. It’s like, to them, no one else on the planet exists. It’s a baseline of such extreme narcissism that I can scarcely believe it.

It’s unreal.

I have a few mentally ill stalkers who have always operated this way. Not only will they lie but they will change the lie from moment to moment because they aren’t seeking truth or justice, they are only seeking to hurt me, but what is scary to wrap my head around is that (not all, not all, not all) but most on the Left are this narcissistic.

I have a hard time accepting that actual mental illness could have become so pervasive in our society but I can no longer deny it. It’s really mind-blowing and very unsettling.

This goes far beyond political or social disagreement. Most on the Left and far too many on the right, are actually, mentally ill.

What do we do with that? How can we fix that? Is there any fixing it and if there isn’t, how do we move forward as a country?

A Small Change

It’s always such a delicate balance to know whether or not to ignore haters.

I keep going back and forth between ignoring them completely and then posting about the ones who especially target my family with threats or otherwise.

Last night I was deeply saddened to learn that, not only had I been duped by a photographer but I must have been duped by the mutual acquaintance we have who put us in touch.

I don’t want to live my life distrusting everyone I meet, yet, at times like this, I feel like a fool not to have distrusted more.

I have had a lot of encouragement from my followers to expose these people when they lie and/or make violent threats but please understand when I say that I’m exhausted.

I just can’t do the negative part of this anymore. I already ignore 99% of the hate but I’m bumping it up a notch.

No more screenshots, no more posts about attacks, no more explaining the same points to the same NPC’s, over and over and over again.

I put in three good years fighting the good fight on Insta and Twitter and Facebook. I have red pilled quite a few people who started out hating me, and I’m so blessed that God allowed me to be a window for His light but now it’s time to just promote healthy, normal families and ignore the haters.

“Don’t feed the trolls, ” as they used to say.

I’m so tired of reading my scriptures and thinking about how bad the world is. It’s distracting me from my own sins. I should see myself in the scriptures’ convictions, not be so overwhelmed mentally with the evil of strangers I can’t find myself.

How will I grow closer to God? How will I teach my children the right path? It’s time for some weaponized normalcy people ūüėā Radical ignoring. 100% focus on the light ‚ô•ūüôĆ

Thank you ‚ô•

Glenna¬†Gordon and Seyward¬†Darby Lied About Ayla Stewart and TradLife

A year ago I agreed to do a photo shoot with a photojournalist (Glenna Gordon, recommended by many on the Right.

She published the pictures recently and totally lied about me and DOXED my location after promising me she would not. Be warned please and know how absolutely unethical and dangerous this woman is.

During the photoshoot I kept smiling so at one point she acted like one of my kids fell off the fence and snapped the picture during the transition of smile to concern. I knew she would only use that picture too and that’s what she did.
I have children for gosh sakes. The people they insight are violent. I already had Antifa show up at my house this year. I have directly told these women that TradLife has NOTHING TO DO WITH WHITE CULTURE.

Right there on my website is the definition “the restoration and preservation of traditional values” and those are for all people. I have said so time and time again.


Instagram deleted my post wherein I showed the photo taken of my family by photographer Glenna Gordon. This photographer then lied about me when she published it, claiming that #TradLife is about white culture, that I am a Nazi, and that I was kicked off Twitter for hate speech. Trad Life is about the restoration and preservation of traditional values. I have always maintained I am absolutely NOT a Nazi of any kind and Twitter never gave a reason for deleting either of my accounts. Far from “hate speech.”

The post also showed both the picture that was taken as well as screenshots from my Twitter dating back years where I say #TradLife is about restoring traditional values for ALL people of ALL races and is not race-based.

Why would they take this down? How does it violate anything on Insta for me to defend myself against provable falsehoods? Please follow my back account @thenestbuilders

UPDATE: Props to Insta for being consistent. I thought she deleted this post where she lied about me (and probably the other women too) but apparently Insta removed it. She has still spread lies about me at and on her website but I’m impressed a little more with Insta today. By the way, I didn’t report it. That never even occurred to me tbh but I imagine a lot of you must have. Thanks guys!

You can politely contact the woman who wrote the piece on at

You can contact the woman who took the photos and lied about me and tradlife on her website at

Instagram Drama

When I posted the above images, they were removed. Original post does not violate Instagram’s ToS according to them.

Martinstag Printable PDF Illustration!

Are you ready to get your paper lanterns and tell the tale of Saint Martin? This cute illustration can be a decoration, a teaching aide, a prop for a Sunday school lesson, a reminder of your culture and heritage, etc. So many uses and only 99 cents! Can’t beat that!

The Revolution Will Nit Be Televised because the Revolution Won’t Happen

My latest column for New Media Central can be read here.

New Watercolors! Winter Vignettes

Check out my Esty Store here and, as always, thank you so much for your support!

Ayla Stewart, Wife With a Purpose, Is NOT On Twitter, At All, As of Nov 3, 2018. All Accounts Claiming to be me, Are Fake

Twitter Suspended Me Again, I Didn’t Even Use My Account. All Accounts on Twitter Claiming to Be Are FAKE.

As most of you know I have a Twitter account but I almost never use it. Why even have an account after they suspended me for no reason (literally, they cited no reason) last year? Well, it was because after the de-verifying me last year, numerous fake accounts sprang up and I wanted people to be able to at least read what I have said for myself.

You see, despite the headlines and rhetoric, I haven’t said or done anything that the Left accuses me of. I don’t cuss, I don’t attack people. Nothing. I wanted people to see that my message was for all people and that it was Christ-centered.

Despite never breaking any terms of service, on my first account, @apurposefulwife, or my latest account, @aylawife, Twitter suspended me and allows people to use their platform to create fake and photoshopped lies about me, in addition, they allow people to threaten my family and stalk me.

Twitter allows death threats to my children and allows people to post my address, pictures of my home, etc. Then it allows them to run scam accounts claiming to be me, which insight hatred and lies.

If my family ends up murdered by one of these psychopaths, Twitter not only allowed it to happen on their platform they ENCOURAGED it. I’m not being hyperbolic here. Twitter knows exactly what they are doing.

The Left is in a mad dash to clear house and silence everyone. I’ve always said I originally got online to show women there is a different option, that they can choose the life of a happy homemaker and wife but the Left literally wants total, tyrannical, control, where young women are not given ANY alternative options.

I will not rejoin Twitter. As I said, I basically never used my account anyway. It was just a placeholder to help speak the truth about who I am, but the Left can’t stand the truth.

God knows the truth. The Left can’t touch me. They can’t touch my children. They can drag us into the street and kill us, as they have literally threatened to do, and we will be received into the arms of Jesus.

They have no power at all and that infuriates them.

New Art! Folk Style Christmas!

Folk Christmas

Tree of the North

Will we have to flee far north, in the cold, snow and ice where our ancestors once flourished? Or will we hold our place and traditions here? This piece draws our mind to a time behind us as well as a future before us -led by who we are. Signed by the artist. Makes a great gift for a fan of Wife With A Purpose 5.5 x 8.5 inches.

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